Welcome To Discover Aid, Support For Mid-Life Crisis which can be the cause of low self-esteem, anxiety and depression in many people.
Often, if not understood, a midlife crisis (either yours or your partner’s) can eventually lead to infidelity, relationship break-up and divorce through either a lack of understanding of the changes that are occurring for your or your partner (including a healthy dose of narcissism).
Here we talk a lot about what happens after a relationship has ended, not about trying to heal a relationship.
There are some really helpful sources out there to support those of you that want to try to save your relationship. Please check out our links pages for some help.
Does that sound like a mouthful? well for some thats the whole domino effect of a mid-life crisis. Something that has been brewing maybe for many years that has now come to the surface. Maybe you are here because you are feeling like you are having a mid life crisis.
Perhaps you are on a journey where you will experience challenges to your self-esteem, an emotional breakdown or a full mental breakdown. Once you are trying to get through that you might find you have a relationship break-up, there are others involved with you or your partner and so infidelity and the reality of an affair hits home hard. Its time to face the truth about your relationship and either mend while you can or look to separate and divorce.
What a horrible situation. Yet thousands of people are experiencing this for the first time and like many things that come our way there is little preparation or support for such events.
Discover Aid aims to help you to get through this troubling time with the minimal of pain. Think of this as a transition from your early life to your mid-life. Think of it as a time of change and great opportunity. It will be your choice what to make of it but as you read the articles here you will see that it is a great time of change in your life and with it comes a great chance to make changes in your life for the best.
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Discover Aid is run by myself & my trusty laptop. I am a qualified counsellor and have experience with mid-life crisis and and the resulting identity searching through narcissism and infidelity that often clouds what really is going on for a person and not understood by anyone. I also share here my own personal experiences so this site is not a place to find online counselling however I can give you my opinion and advice on condition that you also seek professional legal support and professional counselling support elsewhere to assist you through what may be a troubled time for you.
I look deep within me as well as others to present the answers that so many people need right now.
I will be honest with you in my writing and responses. I will tell you how it is hoping to break down any denial you may have of the reality of your situation.
I hope Discover Aid makes your midlife crisis and transition more fulfilling. It can be one of the most exciting times of your life if you fully understand what is happening to you and why.
The information you obtain at this site is not, nor is it intended to be legal advice. You should consult a lawyer, solictor for individual advice regarding your own situation. Look after yourself properly and don’t kid yourself that anyone should be looking after you more than you should yourself.