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Comment on Where To Go When You Can’t Cope Anymore by techocola

techocola — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 06:34:13 +0000

hi
i too am overwhelmed with my life,
my mom and i were very rich once,my step dad owned a couple of hotels in london,then they seperated,my mom had a flourishing business she had to shut down,she was low and iwas growing up,i started working as a model and i earned money ,but no one including me took me seriously bcoz what i earned was a pittance compared to what we were used to,mom was disdainful,i blew up all i earned we never realized the gravity of the situation till one day,my step dad who was also paying alimony passed away,he didint leave us much,and my mum pretty much blew thta away too,some on me some on herself,
i am so angry and also so irritated at myself,i got a job i left it aftr 2 months,i am not saying it was the easiest place to work at but i couldnt deal,one day my immediate boss insulted me and i just put in the papers,i dont think i am a quitter but innede this job,i cant pretend that idont ,it was not the best place to be but we need the money,i am also going through a divorce as u can see my cup of joy is full

Comment on Squandering Our Lives Away by Hilary

Hilary — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 00:32:23 +0000

I accidentally found this website. Some of the thoughts you express are really very good. I loved the post you made where you compare midlife crises to What to Do When Your Way of Dealing with Life Doesn’t Work Anymore (or something to that effect). You have some great insights into midlife pain.

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darcy morrison — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 03:14:00 +0000

I found your blog on google and read a few of your other posts. I just added it to my News Reader. Look forward to reading more from you in the future.

Comment on How To Believe In Yourself by anxiety remedy

anxiety remedy — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 13:06:21 +0000

Great post. Some natural anxiety remedies to look into are St.John’s Wort, SAMe, L-Theanine, and Tryptophan. There’s also cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and programs like Panic Away and The Linden Method, to name a few. Hope this helps!

Comment on Single by Ruben

Ruben — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 10:46:59 +0000

Thank you for your comment Jo. It is a heart warming response. I was a little concerned about what this comment might include so am partly relieved but also feel that what you have written I could not have bettered myself.

The only thing I would add is that I believe in accepting the dark and the light of life, and relationships certainly throw both at us. To avoid relationships, in whatever way they may be defined is to avoid the fullness of life. By protecting ourselves if we wish to avoid relationships means our lives are less complete and possibly fulfilled.

Peace sister.

Comment on Single by Jo

Jo — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 16:02:14 +0000

Single
Your article is thoughtful.
identity is an ever moving fluid process, i have re discovered this thinking since I became single, shaped by our beliefs values and choices, the essence of who we are.
Although the pain of my perception of “being alone” felt unbearable” I have realised that no one is alone..we have friends and family but most importantly to me is the sense of self , the sense of who we are which gets redefined in any relationship that we enter and the sense of identity is forever in question.
We own ourselves, and no body has the right to challenge this, we are who we are, and who has the right to question our core selves……we are forever learning about our selves, and to have the ability to reflect on this and make life changes which are in essence valuing ourselves is a fantastic quality, the people we meet along the way assist this. I value all relationships that have occured in my life, learnt to let go of the pain I may have felt from them, the bitterness I felt to my marriage, but that is what shapes us…and I am very proud to be the person I am today.
Being single is a refreshing place to be …to enable further self discovery develop new and resurect old friendships which empower and guide us to fullfill our dreams.
Independence is liberating – IIfe is for living and if you / we choose to be single that is a choice to be respected.

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jonathan — Fri, 10 Jul 2009 02:39:12 +0000

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Comment on The Change Of Personality Of My Ex-Wife by Break up Relationship

Break up Relationship — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 19:59:18 +0000

I came in here looking to add backlink to my site. But, what I found was a well-written and informative article. Thanks

Comment on Relationship Break-up At Midlife; An Introduction by Long distance relationship | Love And Relationship Blog

Long distance relationship | Love And Relationship Blog — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 03:12:24 +0000

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Divorce Online — Thu, 18 Sep 2008 11:23:52 +0000

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Comment on My Midlife Crisis Experiences by Ruben

Ruben — Thu, 28 Aug 2008 14:07:39 +0000

Hi Leslie, I have mailed you but had no response. Let me know if you still need to talk.

Comment on My Midlife Crisis Experiences by LESLIE

LESLIE — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 16:07:36 +0000

Guy,
I could use some insight and advice. I believe my husband of 16 years is going through a midlife crisis and I am having a very difficlult time…not knowing what might happen next. If you have a chance please contact me.

Thanks, Leslie

Comment on My Daughter Is My Inspiration For A Simple Life by sikantis

sikantis — Fri, 13 Jun 2008 03:11:00 +0000

Interesting post and thoughts. Esteem is for us all the most important. Give esteem to someone else and you get it back. I write about esteem, check it out if you want to.

Comment on Do You Suspect Infidelity? by Bob Huizenga

Bob Huizenga — Thu, 12 Jun 2008 12:14:17 +0000

Thanks for the work on infidelity. I appreciate your comments about how difficult it is to change and recover from infidelity. I’ve found it, as well, to be a long and difficult road for many. I wish you continued success and appreciate being a “team mate” in helping others cope with extramarital affairs.

Bob
http://www.infidelity-help.com
http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com

Comment on How To Believe In Yourself by How To Believe In Yourself « Self esteem

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Comment on New Friends For Your Life-Style Change by Jo

Jo — Mon, 02 Jun 2008 13:19:51 +0000

,I feel that friends who are with you when you are a couple, may be finding it hard to keep the individual friendships going, and be genuine about the friendship, as they themselves are envious of the situation that you are now in. By this I mean, they are envious , or maybe envy is too strong a word, it may just be confusion of their own thoughts that you have freed yourself from the shackels of a non fulfilling relationship. They struggle to show genuiness, although in some situations and with some friends they may in deed re focus themslves as genuine when they have got over the initial envy of your freedom. I have mixed thoughts in relation to friends during this time, I really believe that in order to get yourself through the situation ( divorce / infidelity) the one person you have to rely on is only yourself, you will not fail or abandon your feelings. Friends will re visist the relationship when they feel able to deal with the changes this has brought about in you. You then have to consider whether ther is room in your life for these individuals.

Comment on Early Signs Of A Midlife Crisis by Guy

Guy — Fri, 23 May 2008 15:53:35 +0000

HI Middleman, thanks for commenting. This article is about some early signs of my own midlife crisis. Its not meant to be a definitive description of early signs of a midlife crisis, but more my own. I do have some scribbles on that page about sports cars somewhere :O)

Best wishes

Guy