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http://www.discoveraid.com Midlife is a time of change: lifestyle, career, relationships. Time for some self help support to guide you out of the down days. Topics also cover parenting, narcissism, self-esteem, depression, anxiety, divorce & surviving infidelity & midlife crisis. Thu, 15 Oct 2009 04:22:25 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en I think about my children all the time as they are so much part of my life. When There comes a time to truely reflect on my life i would like to remind myself that it could have been very different. I left long hours commuting and work to ... http://www.discoveraid.com/midlife-middle-years-life-style-change/my-children.html I recall a couple of people i have met telling me with a smile that they believe in reincarnation. 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