What Are The Biggest Issues Dealing With Infidelity & Divorce?

With the prospect that our partner is having an affair we struggle to cope with the truth of infidelity.

When it’s is clear, we struggle to cope with the implications of divorce & for our future.

When faced with separation and divorce we risk making mistakes that will affect the rest of our lives.

With so much to think about and consider we often miss the biggest opportunity of all.

Read on, I will tell you more.

My Own Experience Of Infidelity

I found out about my wife’s affair just as I was putting the children to bed on christmas eve. I had to tuck my children in & read them a good night story whilst trying to cope with the realisation of what I was now facing.

All that night I couldn’t sleep and had to deal with so many emotions & uncertainties rushing through my mind.

Like many I have met since, the thoughts that consumed me were:

The Shock Of Discovering Your Partner Has Been Cheating:

• How could they cheat on me? how could they be so callous?
• Am I not good enough for my partner anymore?
• Does how long we have been together mean nothing to my partner?
• Do they not care how I feel?

The Implications To You And Your Family:

• How will my family react when they hear?
• What will I tell the children?
• What will I say to friends? will they support me?

Practical Issues:

• What are my partner’s plans? or did he or she have any plans before being discovered?
• Who is going to move out? me or my partner?
• What’s going to happen about responsibilities that I rely on your partner to do for me?
• how will I arrange child care so I can work?
• How will I manage to work & earn money whilst looking after the children?

The Financial Issues:

• How am I going to split the share of your assets?
• Can I afford to live separately?
• Can I afford child support costs?

And this is just the start of the issues and challenges you will face.

Where Can You Get Help?

If you are lucky you have family and friends that can give you advice.

But not always can they offer support that is not tainted by their own life experiences which may not suit your situation.

So, apart from a lawyer and a counsellor you might have very little independent support.

What about other people’s experiences? how did they get through this?

The Discover Aid Guide To Surviving Infidelity And Divorce

This is why the DiscoverAid Survival guide to infidelity and divorce has been written.

The book will show you how to: take back control, build yourself up again and get through this most challenging of times to find a new life, a new you that is happier and has a better life than you ever knew possible.

Really?

Part of dealing with a crisis such as infidelity and divorce is realising it can become a great opportunity to review and reset your life plan in a direction that you lost many years ago.

My e-book will guide you through the process of identifying infidelity, coping with your own feelings, organising your separation & divorce and managing your new life in a way that makes it a success for you.

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Outline Of The Author: Guy Lewis

Guy Lewis is the author of the popular Discover Aid midlife & relationship blog site.

As a qualified counsellor and psychotherapist who has also gained over twenty years managing people and relationships in international multicultural corporations Guy has supported people through their own relationship break-ups as well as personally experiencing infidelity and divorce in his own life.

Guy supported his three children through the life changing experience and went on to rebuild his life and rediscover many important things about himself that were lost as part of his marriage.

What Do You Get In The Book?

Topics Include:

• 10 key tips for surviving today,
• Working out is this really infidelity or just a midlife crisis for your partner,
• Considering and planning for separation and divorce,
• Finding good support,
• Understanding and managing your emotions ,
• Post divorce / separation issues,
• Managing children, managing ex-partners
• Reflecting & Redefining who you are,
• Preparing for a new relationship.

Here is a table of contents for the book:

What Will Change For You If You Read This Book?

After you read this book you will be able to:

• Take back control of your life & get through divorce having survived sucessfully,

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  Manage your emotions so that you can be on top of your separation & divorce,

• Disolve the affect that infidelity & divorce has on your self that can derail your future relationships,

• Set out a plan for a new life and a new revitalised ‘you’

• Live an exciting new life of opportunity where YOU are in control!

Note: this ebook is not an alternative to legal advice and will not give you hints and tips about issues such as financial negotiations when divorcing.

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Discover Aid always recommends that you seek good legal advice as part of your separation and divorce. Additionally we recommend that you seek professional support via a counsellor or psychotherapist. This ebook will aid and support you but is not intended nor will it be an alternative to seeking a professional lawyer and counsellor / psychotherapist. Your purchase of this ebook is based on that understanding.